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Relaxation Exercises for the Eternally Anxious

Do you feel like you're "on" all the time? Wired or anxious, even though there may be nothing to be wrired or anxious about? If you feel like relaxation and calm are out of your reach, there is hope! These few simple steps can help with anxiety...and Adrenal Fatigue.


Dr. Andrew Neville


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When Relaxation Exercises Feel Out of Reach

Do you feel like you’re “on” all the time? Wired or anxious, even though there may be nothing to be wired or anxious about? Perhaps you feel like your body is actually buzzing. If so, you may also regard relaxation exercises with some trepidation.

You’re not alone.

All that buzzing and worrying is from an overactive stress response, or as most people know it better, a constant state of “fight-or-flight.”

One of the key practices to calming and healing is a relaxation exercise regimen. You may scoff now, but I assure you, it’s possible for even the most anxious of us!

Stress Versus Relaxation Physiology

Your body’s physiology is like a seesaw: one side of the seesaw is stress physiology (fight or flight), and the other is relaxation physiology (rest and digest). These sides should be in balance. You need both working together to live.

Adrenal Fatigue is a dysfunction of your body’s stress response system. It means your body has been stuck in a stress response (fight or flight) for too long and too often. Our stress response system then gets stuck in overdrive. It creates tremendous wear and tear on our system, not to mention all that anxiety. As you can imagine, too much wear and tear without enough healing and repair is not a recipe for health and well-being.

Relaxation physiology is the opposite, the state where you not only rest and digest, but also where you heal and repair. That’s the state we’re searching for, and I promise you can get there.

How to Access Relaxation Physiology

Life demands that you stimulate your stress physiology all too often—anywhere from sitting in traffic to exposure to chemicals in our food to the death of a loved one. This excess of stress means we have to pursue its opposite, actively, and forcibly.

The most effective way to turn on rest and digest physiology is with a consistent form of relaxation exercise.

I know it seems like every influencer and blog in the “well-being” world has advice about relaxation activities. I’m here to tell you that there’s science behind every bit of that advice, but there’s more to it than reading a book or going for a walk.

Unlocking the Power of Breath for Anxiety Relief

There are activities that may relax you, like doing a puzzle, streaming TV, gardening, or cooking your favorite meal. These things are helpful and certainly have their place, but what you need to access is something very different.

The most efficient and effective stimulation of each and every healing mechanism in your body can be achieved through encouraging a state of “rest and digest.” This is primarily facilitated by specific mind-focusing exercises, which include activities such as meditation, deep breathing, guided imagery, or visualization.

Among these, deep breathing stands out as a particularly powerful tool. Correct breathing techniques may help you stave off an anxiety attack while helping to support adrenal function and calm your nervous system. Engaging in these practices directs your body’s energy towards healing and maintenance, pulling away from the ‘fight or flight’ response that exacerbates anxiety and panic.

By integrating these focused breathing exercises into your daily routine, you are not only promoting overall wellness but also equipping your body with the mechanisms to combat the immediate symptoms of anxiety and panic. This proactive approach ensures a holistic enhancement of your health, enabling you to manage stress more effectively and maintain a calm, balanced state of mind.

You Decide What Relaxation Exercise Is Best

A relaxation exercise does not have to be anything complex. You don’t have to learn anything at all. All you do is find a spot that’s quiet and comfortable, sit or lie down, close your eyes, and focus on one thing. When your mind drifts, which it will, just grab it and return to your focus. Simple.

Some people choose to focus on a word; they may use one such as health, peace, love, or strength. This is meditation. Others choose to repeat memorized phrases, like a short prayer or mantra. Some people focus on their breath, deep breathing. Still others choose visualization and focus on a picture. It doesn’t matter to your body what you choose to focus on, as long as it works for you.

There is a lot of information and instruction on the numerous ways to accomplish this, and everyone seems to think that their way is the best. Some sources may tell you that if you do it any other way, then you’re doing it wrong. Nonsense. The best way is the way that works for you, the way that you’ll stick with it.

Some Sample Breathing Exercises to Try

If you’re new to this or need a specific method to start with, try the following breathing exercise to promote relaxation:

  • Find a Quiet Place: Sit or lay down in a spot where you won’t be disturbed.
  • Breathe Deeply: Slowly inhale, filling your lower lungs first, then your upper lungs. Avoid overfilling; just keep it slow and relaxed.
  • Use Visualization: Imagine an elliptical shape that expands as you inhale and narrows as you exhale.
  • Relax Your Muscles: As you exhale slowly, focus on relaxing the muscles in your shoulders, neck, and face.
  • Repeat: Do this for ten cycles. Remember to breathe normally in between cycles to avoid hyperventilation.
  • Practice Regularly: It’s best to practice this technique a few times a day. Once you’re comfortable, you can do it anytime, anywhere.

By focusing on your breath and using visualization, you can significantly enhance your relaxation. Remember, the key is consistency and finding what truly works for you.

When and How Often Should You Force Relaxation?

The process is simple: consistent, daily, timed focus. This is not a mind wandering exercise; this is a focus exercise. Start slowly, but set time aside for it! Start with 5 minutes twice a day, then move to 10 minutes twice a day. For some of us, the act of sitting still with possibly intrusive thoughts seems unbearable. It is a practice, an exercise. And just like everything else in life, practice makes you more skilled.

This part of healing may seem inconsequential. Perhaps because of how “simple” it is or how little time it takes. I assure you, though, forced relaxation and getting into the state of relaxation physiology is as important as several of the other puzzle piece of healing.

Healing is about putting enough of those puzzle pieces together at the same time. When all those pieces are in place, the body shifts into rest-and-digest physiology and true healing begins. The proven, clinical way I do this is by my Trilateral Healing Approach.


Dr. Andrew Neville


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