Dear Friends and Family…

If your loved one has been assessed to have this ubiquitous, frustrating, and misunderstood condition, this may be the most important letter you ever read.

I hope this information within this note can help both of you. If there’s only one thing I could impart to the loved ones of my patients, it would be this: The best way for patients to heal from Adrenal Fatigue is with the support from those closest to them. My research and clinical experience have proven this to be true.

For almost 20 years, I have consulted with thousands of patients in my Pennsylvania office, or by phone or video. The assessment and treatment of Adrenal Fatigue is what I do, all day, every day.

Who Is Susceptible to Adrenal Fatigue?

Adrenal Fatigue is a stress-response dysfunction that develops because of a combination of genetic vulnerability and enough chronic stress to overwhelm those genetics. This condition takes many years to develop, and the early symptoms are often medicated symptomatically by well-meaning doctors.

Adrenal Fatigue sufferers have an imbalance of their stress response system.

Upon evaluation of their medical history, it’s obvious that my Adrenal Fatigue patients are typically overachievers that have pushed themselves beyond their capacity to adapt to the stressors of life; as a result, they are now underachieving.

Ultimately, these maladapted stressors take a toll on the person’s HPA Axis, the autonomic nervous system (ANS), and the limbic system of the brain. The dysfunction in the entirety of the stress response system causes this syndrome to proliferate.

These patients often say they’re “okay.” They’re not.

Your loved one has pushed herself and “faked it” for too long; she is suffering from complete burnout.

This burnout is akin to a zebra in the wild running from a cheetah. The natural experience is designed to last less than a minute, after which the zebra curls up and recovers for a day or two. Your loved one has been “running from cheetahs” for years—not days—with no respite or recovery.

Have You Noticed Your Loved One Is More Sensitive in Every Way?

Stress comes in many forms: the mental pressure of a career or from an employer, the loss of a parent, psychological upset, decision-making, discord within the family, perceived lack of love, etc. 

Other stressors include the physical stress of a standard American diet (sugar and processed foods devoid of nutrition), blood sugar imbalance, hormone imbalance, spinal misalignment, and pain.

My patients can be extra sensitive to light, noise, touch, supplements, pain, and external stressors.

The origin of the stress is not the real issue; the crux of the issue is what the adrenal patient perceives as stress and the subsequent response that elicits. Adrenal Fatigue patients will have an increased stress response to events that the majority of people handle easily.

Their five senses are all on high alert. Smells are stronger and possibly irritating. The slamming of a door may feel like an earthquake to them. The phone ringing makes their heart race. They usually react more strongly to supplements and pharmaceuticals. When faced with a decision, they may find it impossible to choose. Their stress-tolerance has bottomed out.

This Is What Adrenal Fatigue Feels Like

So that those who do not suffer from Adrenal Fatigue might understand this, I often will propose a simple exercise for emphasis. I will ask that one considers the last close call he had in a car, getting cut off in traffic, for instance.

Now I will ask that he feel that response: feel the blood bound into muscles, heart, and lungs; feel eyes dilate; feel the palpitations; feel the sweat, the queasiness, the sense of fear and panic. I will ask that he then continue to hold on to that experience and add to it the aches, pains, and debilitating fatigue of the last bad flu he had.

Imagine having aches, pains, anxiety, and fatigue 24/7.

If he can imagine this, then he can imagine how it is to be an adrenal patient 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Please, Don’t Think They’re “Lazy”

My thousands of patient interactions have taught me that my patients are not malingerers. There is no greater desire of our patients than to be able to return to a fulfilling, active, and productive life. For those reading this letter, you probably know your loved one isn’t “lazy.”

If there is a fault with my patients, it is a tendency to force themselves prematurely back into the lifestyle that they enjoyed before developing CFS/Adrenal Fatigue. This tendency to return to “normal” too soon then causes a relapse in their condition.

A patient’s greatest wish is to be able to return to a fulfilling, active, and productive life.

Time and proper care are needed for recovery. My patients need to make changes in activity judiciously and gradually to prevent any recurrence of their condition and allow space for the neurohormonal system to adapt to each new situation, stress, or demand.

How You Can Help Your Loved One

As a friend or family member, we are either alleviating our loved one’s stress or contributing to it, and we must assess which one is occurring.

I continuously counsel my patients to do their best to mitigate or control every possible stress that they can, and this is where we can finally help them.

We need to do our best to accept, unconditionally, what stress is in the patient’s mind (as ridiculous as those stressors may seem to us at times) and do our best to control this stress.

These stressors can seem inconsequential or innocuous: answering the phone, seeing clutter in the house, attending a get-together with friends, taking a walk, or even the lack of touch from a loved one.

I understand that this concept can be challenging to comprehend fully, but know that this is the rule with adrenal patients.

There is no “one-size-fits-all” approach to healing.

Pushing your loved one to “snap out of it” is not the solution; in fact, it worsens their condition by adding guilt to the mix, a crushing stressor they just can’t handle right now. It’s time for support and understanding, not abandonment and criticism.

A simplistic but appropriate view of this condition is that, in order for healing to take place, treatment of the patient must outpace the stress of the patient; if the patient and I can accomplish this for a long enough period, recovery is possible.

Beyond emotional support, you can keep an eye on your loved one and help them with these key parts of healing:

— Reducing or eliminating external stress.
— Pacing themselves, resting, and accepting their limitations.
— Getting quality nutrition and following a hypoglycemic diet.
— Working on easy-to-follow, low pressure treatment protocols.

Treatment for Adrenal Fatigue Patients

When I work one-on-one with Adrenal Fatigue patients, my treatment plans are individualized.

Depending on the patient’s set of symptoms, health history, sensitivity level, diet, social support, and my nuanced assessment of any testing, I may use any or all of the following in the patient’s treatment:

Lifestyle, Sleep, and Movement

— Providing guidance and tools to help strengthen and foster the patient’s relaxation response.
— Providing outside resources to balance and rest the overworked stress response system.
— Designing a sleep hygiene plan that suits the patient’s lifestyle.

Natural Supplements 

— Controlling symptoms using natural supplements (and fewer pharmaceuticals when possible).
— Repairing cellular function and appropriate receptor sensitivity with fatty acids and phospholipids.
— Supporting the adrenals using precursors, vitamins, and cofactors.
— Replenishing the nutrients lost from chronic, perpetual stress and adrenal hormone output.
— Repairing the general damage done to the body by the adrenal hormones by supplying antioxidants.
— Healing organs and systems by using immune, digestive, ovarian hormone, or thyroid support.

Diet and Nutrition

— Working on an energy-giving diet.
— Offering personalized dietary recommendations
— Creating the patient’s own best “low stress” nutritional plan.

Support and Coaching

— Being available for the patient throughout the treatment protocol.
— Coaching the patient for success and guiding them through their treatment plan.
— Providing maintenance and care throughout recovery…and after the patient is well.

I hope this letter helps you understand what your loved one is going through daily. Please be patient with them.

Yours in health,

Dr. Andrew Neville

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